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March 11, 2015

Dust Your Shoulders Off

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Today's theme is all about dusting them shoulders off.
Figuratively and well...sorta literally.
I've always been an over thinker and I tend to let things get to my head...
and my heart.
We've all experienced some sort of cyber bullying...
whether its hate comments, photos or even being down right ignored.
And although I am no cyber bullying expert I have in the last few years learned to...
Dust my shoulders off and move on!
It's hard, I know...but here are a few things I do to help me get through those days when people are just not so nice!

1. Always remember that you are better than them. 
No one raises up by bringing other downs!
2. Politely reply with a comment that puts them in their place
In a smartass, know it all way...people despise that
But it makes you seem...well spoken and unafraid to address the issue.
3. Dust your shoulders off and ignore. Duh!
You do not have the time, nor the patience to deal with such childish squabble.
4. And finally, never retaliate...it's better to kill them with kindness than lower yourself to their level.

Now, for my off the shoulder look.
I purchased this Forever 21 darling top a couple weeks ago and let me tell you.
It's actually pretty good quality and super cute!
Perfect for festival season which I can already smell in the air.

I hope my little tips on how to handle mean girls helped.
I'll be incorporating more of these in the future 
so let me know a REAL issue you want to see next.

Love you guys!

xo
ejc

wearing: top - forever21, pants - shop tobi, heels and sunglasses - zara

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8 comments

  1. You look so pretty in this outfit! Fantastic top and very elegant pants!

    http://lartoffashion.blogspot.com

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  2. I love your white pants and off the shoulder top
    xo
    www.laurajaneatelier.com

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  3. so pretty ;-)


    new post

    www.live-style20.blogspot.com

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  4. Gorgeous!
    http://wanderlust60.blogspot.com.es/

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  5. Un look ideal!! Guapísima!!
    Te invito a que visites mi blog www.alpasofuerte.com
    Un beso

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  6. Ok first off I am OBSESSED with this look! You are making me want to buy it all from head to toe. Second you are amazing and if someone has something bad to say about you, then they are nuts. You are gorge and I only wish i could look and be as successful as you are. But when people are insecure that's when those negative comments arise.

    Lastly I have really been loving your photos lately! The mood they create is magical! I know you got a new sigma lens, may I ask which one? I just purchased the sigma 50 mm 1.4 Art lens and I love it. Hope my photos can be as amazing as yours.

    XO SAMIRA
    www.stylemesamira.com

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  7. Oh I think this look is going to be huge for spring / summer. And you pull it off perfectly of course! :)))

    Carrie
    www.wearwherewell.com

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Thank you so very much for all your comments they mean the world to me! Keep spreading the love and inspiration. xo ejc

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